Fortunately, Olga provides a warning in a note to the reader at the very front of the book. Apr 01, cat rated it it was amazing. I read this years ago, a book of amazingly brave truth-telling from a colleague and friend that I love deeply, and somehow it never ended up on my Goodreads, and I never reviewed it!
I was at a conference a few weeks ago where both Olga and I spoke and I was reminded again of the ways that Olga is able to engage her audiences in person or through her writing in a story of complex and multiple traumas in a way that surfaces the intersectionality of culture and sexism, of violence and resilience I read this years ago, a book of amazingly brave truth-telling from a colleague and friend that I love deeply, and somehow it never ended up on my Goodreads, and I never reviewed it!
The Sum of My Parts: A Survivor's Story of Dissociative Identity Disorder [Olga Trujillo JD] on linawycatuzy.gq *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. By the first day . "The Sum of My Parts" is the courageous account of Olga Trujillo's experiences with Dissociative Identity Disorder and the understanding of how her experiences .
I was at a conference a few weeks ago where both Olga and I spoke and I was reminded again of the ways that Olga is able to engage her audiences in person or through her writing in a story of complex and multiple traumas in a way that surfaces the intersectionality of culture and sexism, of violence and resilience, of disassociation and now intentional daily presence and joy. The story of her survival of an abusive childhood and the ways that she was able to engage in deep healing later in her life is compelling and brutally painful - and we owe it to her and to other survivors to hold that truth in any way that we can, right along with her.
Jul 09, Laurie rated it it was amazing Shelves: I really liked this book. Olga wrote a very compelling story about her own life and trauma. I have worked with many DID clients and she describes it so well.
I feel that this book can be educational for therapists who are working with clients with DID and for clients with DID who feel alone and scared. I applaud Olga's courage, tenacity and capacity to heal. If you ware a therapist, this is an excellent read. A page turner just for the story in and of itself. Thank you, Olga, for an excellent co I really liked this book.
Thank you, Olga, for an excellent contribution to this world. May be triggering for graphic rape and domestic violence. I had to stop reading a few times because it was so brutal An incredible story of survival and resilience in the face of truly unspeakable abuse perpetrated by the author's own immediate family. The brain is an awesome thing, what it can help us survive is just incredible Read it cover to cover in one sitting Very well written and moving book.
We all need compassion, and it's a reminder that negativity manfisted comes from pain that may be healed with small gestures of friendship, care and concern. Compelling I sobbed through the first half of the book. It was a terrifying yet beautifully written story.
Thank you for sharing, Olga. Aug 26, Anna rated it liked it Shelves: This is one of the better DID memoirs I've read. Toward the end of the book it started to get a little braggy, even by memoir standards. I also would have been interested in more exploration of the author coming to terms with the sexual orientation.
This isn't mentioned until quite far along in the book. Very emotionally difficult to read this but worth it. Mar 01, Wall-to-wall books - wendy rated it it was amazing. In the beginning this was a very difficult book to read. This is the kind of abuse that we know happens but we wish didn't. She details all the physical and sexual abuse she suffered under the hands of her father then her two brothers.
I do want to mention that the detail is not graphic.
She does talk about the blood and the rapes but not in a real graphic way. This started out really very sad and horrific. And I found myself saying over and In the beginning this was a very difficult book to read.
And I found myself saying over and over -"Why didn't someone do something? This is the kind of thing that didn't have to happen. I don't blame the Author at all, since she dissociated herself she had absolutely no memory of the attacks so she couldn't tell anyone even if she wanted to. Even when questioned about the bruises she was shocked and did not know where they came from.
Her mother was the one I was most angry with, she was in total denial and ignored everything. While it is a mother's job to protect their kids Olga's mother did nothing but stood by and allowed it to happen - in my opinion. The second third of the book was about her going to law school and meeting her soon to be husband. Still all through college she had no memory of any abuse as a child and to that day believed she was still a virgin. Different parts of her which she numbered were still taking over for her when she couldn't cope with the stress of classes and studying.
But all she knew was that there were certain things missing and that she was a little fuzzy about parts of her life. Then after her marriage she had a major panic attack in a theater watching a movie with a rape scene in it. She had no clue why that scene would trigger that panic attack. She started having panic attacks and nightmares more often. She and her husband suspected there was more to this. This is when I cried my first tear!
I actually had to put the book down and take a break. This is about the beginning of the healing process and realizing not only what had happened to her physically but that she has Dissociative identity disorder and how she deals with that diagnoses. This book is very well written! Yes, it is very sad and even horrific at times but also a very encouraging story about a survivor!
This had the potential to be repetitive and over done but it was neither of those - it was perfect, just the right balance.
I certainly give a "Hats off" to the Author for all her struggles yeah to put it mildly and for being a strong survivor! Feb 14, Louise rated it really liked it Shelves: This was a very difficult book to read because my heart went out to Olga Trujillo for what she went through. Diagnosed with dissociative disorder DID in at the age of 31, Olga has spent many years learning about her disorder. She watched her father beat her mother and then he sexually abused her.
Her brothers abused her and she was prostituted.
Summer how terrifying the trip was to his office for her. Published 6 months ago. Follow McNeilAuthor my read shelf: I too was left wanting more after reading Ms. I had the absolute pleasure of meeting Olga recently and I can say that I am truly amazed and humbled at the person she has become as a result of abuse of this magnitude.
Summer how terrifying the trip was to his office for her. She wants people to learn that no matter what happened to them they CAN survive! Trujillo is a survivor and has shown great resilience during her healing. My hat goes off to her for her bravery in seeking help and for now being a spokesperson to help others. Olga is one courageous, gutsy, and brave woman. Olga was a young, successful lawyer in DC when she suddenly started having inexplicable panic attacks and episodes of blank stares or rapidly moving eyes. She sees a psychiatrist and is diagnosed with a moderate case on DID.
On the spectrum, she has multiple parts but not exclusive personalities and still has a central core. These parts have kept the memories of her extraordinarily violent, abusive childhood from her consciousness thereby allowing her to function, but just barely. In her memoir, Olga was a young, successful lawyer in DC when she suddenly started having inexplicable panic attacks and episodes of blank stares or rapidly moving eyes. In her memoir, Olga tells what she has now remembered of her childhood and how she has now discovered she managed to function and be surprisingly resilient.
She then delves into her long-term therapy and how she has come together into mostly one part and usually no longer dissociates. Since Olga has a centralized part that has integrated most of the other parts, she writes with clarity and awareness of when she dissociated as a child, the process through therapy, and integration and her new life now. This ability to clearly articulate what was going on and how dissociation was a coping mechanism for her survival makes the book much more accessible for a broader audience.
I also appreciate the fact that someone with a mental illness who is Latina, first generation American, and a lesbian is speaking out. Too often the picture of a person with a mental illness is whitewashed. That said, this clarity and awareness does not carry us entirely through the present.
The end of her therapy, her big move away from DC, her coming out process, etc These are all big issues and seeing how someone with DID deals with them would be beneficial to advocates and those with mental illness alike. Olga is an inspirational person, overcoming so much to achieve both acclaim in her career and a happy home life. I recommend it to a wide range of people from those interested in the immigrant experience to those interested in living with a mental illness. Check out my full review. I received a free copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
Aug 01, Virginia rated it it was amazing. This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers. To view it, click here. Spousal abuse, child abuse, sexual abuse, child prostitution] This is an amazing book by an amazing woman. The second half addresses the auth Name: It is a very challenging book to read. But even those who may not be triggered will find the descriptions of her treatment as a child revolting and almost literally sickening.
Similarly, the small bright spots that shed some hope into her life - a friendly neighbor, a caring teacher, true friends - were also encapsulated in a part to be retrieved when needed. When the author reached the age of 31, she began working with a therapist who was able to gain her trust and reach out to these different parts usually identified by their age in an attempt to achieve complete integration.
Apr 20, Tess Julia rated it it was amazing. I found this book after watching my teenage daughter unravel over the last 4 months.
It's a must read for anyone with a loved one who suffers from this disorder. The beginning was brutal- you are taken through her horrific past abuse through her road to recovery.
This deeply moving book carefully reveals how Olga developed, lived with and eventually healed from dissociative identity disorder, and comes to thrive. Stay up to date with the progress on Olga's new book and other exciting news from Olga Trujillo Consulting. Enter your e-mail address to join! You are commenting using your Facebook account. Notify me of new comments via email. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.
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