However — you can keep those lusty chemicals flowing in his brain… if you know what to do. Try cuddling a lot with him — and keeping the body contact high. Cuddling is a way to get his brain to release dopamine and make him feel warm and close to you — building intimacy. Plus, it will also release another chemical in his brain, called oxytocin, which boosts his attraction for you. If it seems like you lose guys after a few weeks or a couple months — this is the method for you.
If you want to create a feeling of closeness and intimacy with him — one of the best ways to do it is to reveal secrets about yourself. Telling him secrets implies to him that you trust him — and also unconsciously pushes him to reciprocate and trust you back. Remember — be careful with this approach.
What makes a man fall in love? There is a psychology to love that not many women know about, because they have been taught the wrong things about how to. What is it that makes a man feel a truly strong connection with a woman – the kind of connection that makes him fall in love? The answer may surprise you.
Try talking about yourself more — especially if you just met him. Remember to leave him space to tell you the same things! As you two share more and more, it will naturally move to deeper and deeper territory — which will promote more and more powerful feelings of intimacy and trust with each other.
Basically, the principle goes like this — the more frequently you see someone, the more attracted you are to them. Try to run into him often. If you know that he goes to the gym, or to a coffee shop, or if you know where he works, try to make sure you run into each other. Remember, the more you see each other, the more attracted to each other you become, and the more likely he is to fall for you.
People like people who are similar to themselves. Ever talk to someone and find out more and more about them — and start getting butterflies in your stomach? If you have met him, find common ground that you have with him — like shared taste in sports, movies, books, music, anything! Or, match his posture, or otherwise mirror his body language.
Another tactic is repeating a word or a phrase he used earlier in the conversation. In fact, there are plenty of physical cues that have nothing to do with how you look, and everything to do with making him feel attracted to you. For instance — pheromones meaning how you smell — play a huge role in attraction. So can another powerful tool — body language. Another way that people signal attraction is whether you lean towards him — or he leans towards you.
These are all great ways to make him fall for you, and after he falls for you do you know how to keep him? Because there are 2 big turning points every woman experiences in her relationships with men and they determine if you end up in a happy relationship or if it all ends in heartbreak. So pay attention because the next step to take is vitally important. If not you need to read this next: And the second big problem many women face: Do you feel he might be losing interest, going cold emotionally or pulling away then you need to read this right now or risk losing him forever: Want to find out if the man you want really likes you?
Does He Like You? I can appreciate these tips. But I do not feel that these alone will do the trick for guys that I like. When I met my husband, we spent every single day together. We were both without partners for a few years and it was just a matter of our work schedules working out the best for us. I think you have to be careful when sharing secrets with him. You do not want to do it too early as you might not be sure the type of person this guy is and the secret might end up on the evening news. This is a good point and it works the other way around, too. Guys need to keep a lid on things until they are sure they can trust the person they are spilling secrets to.
Falling for a guy, or a girl, is not something that you can plan, in my opinion. I have experienced this first hand, but it just happened, out of nowhere. I think that makes it more genuine. Spend as much time as you can with him. That will show him that you are interested in him and in most cases, he will drop everything else to do the same. That is what I have been doing. We see each other so much that we are thinking about moving in together. Is that a good situation to be in? I would love to have a guy fall for me, but I do not want to encourage it to happen. I just want it to happen on its own.
If you are going to up the body language than you better be ready to commit. You will be sending a message that he might take too far. There are many woman that mean to be flirty and over bearing with the body language, but they have no REAL interest in the guy. Then they are shocked when the guy tried to make a move. I would like to chime in here and say that these are great ways to get a man to fall for you.
Now, each of them is different, but these tips would have me falling all day long! I have noticed that the more I bump into a guy that I have been spending time with anyways, the relationship seems to move a little faster. This is very true. I have also noticed that when a guy does not have a bunch of friends getting in the way, things move along good as well.
I found that seeing each other at least one time per weekend is a great way to keep the fire burning throughout the week that you might be apart. I have been trying to hard to get any guy to like me that I think I push them away as soon as they want to get a little closer. What should I do so we can end up married? It must be tough being in a relationship with a famous guy if all the girls are chasing him.
I'm not famous, and I won't pretend I have any idea where your guy's head is at. But here's what I suggest you do. I think you should talk to your guy and tell him how you feel. Ask him what he wants from you, and encourage him to be honest with you so you can both figure out if you're likely to have a future together. I know lots of famous guys have long-lasting relationships with girlfriends who become wives. But at least as many probably more end up ditching their partners to take advantage of all the women chasing them.
Perhaps your boyfriend wants you to be by his side all the time or nearly all the time. In which case, are you prepared to do that? Or maybe he wants you to stay home and raise children while he travels.
You'd have to ask yourself if you'd be happy doing that. I think in your position, the big challenge will be trust. Maybe you trust him, but don't trust the women throwing themselves at him. You need to decide whether or not you have enough confidence in your guy to remain loyal to you. If you don't, perhaps you should consider wishing him well and walking away. But if you're confident the two of you can work it out, then give it a go.
I do think one thing you should ask him is to promise he will phone you and tell you if ever he meets another woman he wants to sleep with. So you both know your relationship is over before he comes home and lies to you. It seems like I'm in a relationship, but I'm not. We do everything a couple does, but he says he doesn't want a girlfriend.
He treats me like one though.
What should I do? In which case, the fantasy is never likely to become a reality. If he is gay, I think this is a conversation you should be having with someone who has the experience to share. I have a crush on a guy. We are always talking to each other. He says he really loves me, but he says he doesn't like marriage. What do I do to make him marry me? When I have a crush on someone, it means I'm interested in them and want to get to know them better. When I love someone, it means I care about them and want them to be happy. I feel protective towards them and genuinely care. When I'm really 'in love' with someone, it becomes even more intense, and I can't stand the thought of living without them.
I had lots of crushes, quite a few people I loved, some I've been in love with And we are very, very happy together in our marriage. So in answer to your question, if you only have a crush on the guy, I don't believe you should want to marry him. You haven't said you love him and you haven't said you're in love with him so why would you want to marry the guy? And yes, I believe he could really love you without wanting to marry you.
I suggest you either keep enjoying the guy's company and wait and see if you fall in love with each other and someday discover you're both so in love you want to marry, or find another guy. My friend likes this guy. I also like him, but she doesn't know. This guy shows no interest in her, but he likes to look at me.
Every time I look at him, he is looking at me. What does this mean for my friend and me? So if she was to turn and look at him, she could think the same thing. School romances rarely last long. Why does this guy always want to be around me, hold me, always watch me and always want me to smile?
Ask your friends and family to help come up with ways to put more distance between you and him. The boy is also acting like he loves her. But there is a problem. Many people told the girl that the guy has a girlfriend. Now they are not talking to each other because they had a fight and the boy is not talking to the girl. So what can she do now to make him talk back? The boy said that he has no girlfriend. Is the boy honest or dishonest? If lots of people are telling you the guy has a girlfriend, he probably has.
For me the big issue would be the problem of him not talking. I always see this man staring or glancing at me from a distance. He is always there around me and even my groups when we are chatting. My friends also noticed it. But the thing is, he doesn't seem that friendly or interested when we two talked in person. I suggest you and your friends take a few photos of him then ask around to see if anyone knows who he is and anything about him. He might turn out to be a guy you want to avoid actively. I think you should sit back and wait for the perfect guy to show up.
Maybe the guy you like will feel the same way about you in the future. Or maybe a completely different guy will show up in your life and be a perfect match for you. I think you should just be patient. Get dressed up, smile, and try engaging him in an evening of fun, dinner, etc. I suspect it has a lot to do with confidence and experience. Why is he so awkward around me though he is a super active, friendly, party guy with everyone else?
I see him staring at me a lot, but is it possible he dislikes me instead of being interested in me? If he makes an effort to continue the conversation, he likes you. I like this guy and I think he likes me back. The only problem is we both are shy when it comes to these things. I think you should be brave together and talk, or be kind of silent together and don't talk much. But either way, you should make the effort to try to get together. It sounds like you're going to understand him and he's going to understand you much better than others might. The secret to success will be breaking the ice and allowing each other to be themselves without fear.
Here's a link to an article I wrote that might help you. My boyfriend and I chat a lot by phone, but he doesn't want to spend time with me, and I'm always complaining about it. If you want to spend time with your boyfriend but he's not in a position to give you the time you need or simply doesn't want to , that's a problem.
But to me, the even bigger problem is that you are getting in the habit of 'always complaining' to your boyfriend. If you're not getting what you think you need from a relationship, I suggest you walk away and find a new boyfriend. Just make sure you don't continue that habit of complaining to every guy you ever date.
We all like to enjoy talking and spending time with our partners, and one who complains all the time is not much fun to be around. Why is it that when we were friends, we were close but when he proposed and I accepted we are now distant from each other? When you were his friend or his girlfriend it was easy to tell his guy friends he was going to meet you and spend time with you. Suddenly his friends might be encouraging him to not race to see you So he starts becoming distant.
For other guys, once they are engaged or married they start taking the girl for granted. But be prepared to explain to him your reasons for not wanting to be in a relationship. And give him some kind of timeline or event when you think you might be ready. For instance, a birthday or finishing school or whatever. I think it is definitely possible to break up and then have a strong and committed relationship when the couple gets back together. Sometimes it is an issue of losing trust or respect depending on the circumstances of the break up.
I have a few suggestions if you want to win your ex-girlfriend back. It is up to you to choose which are most relevant. Prove to her you've changed your attitude towards her and won't take her for granted. Don't chase other girls or ignore her. She needs to know you value her presence in your life. Something went wrong the last time, and you need to identify what that was and demonstrate you won't make the same mistakes.
Just because you want to renew your relationship doesn't mean she does. Sometimes you can win a girl back, but sometimes you have to accept a relationship is over. People grow apart, trust gets lost, and it might never be the way it was. But the earth keeps turning and broken hearts heal so don't get depressed if it doesn't come together the way you're hoping. Try your best and see what happens.
Two people liking each other is generally great news. Although sometimes it just means a whole heap of potential trouble. In which case, avoid the drama and walk away. If he asks you on a date, you should be prepared with your answer. Don't say 'yes' just because he asks you. Lots of guys aren't worth going out with, so don't be one of those girls who can't say no. It is easier to not go on the first date than to start going out with someone you don't really like and then have to get yourself out of future date invitations.
You need to have the confidence to say 'no' if he tries to take you somewhere you don't want to go, wants you to use drugs or alcohol, or tries to put the hard word on you to get intimate with him. If you're not ready to enjoy a date with a guy without fear he might try to pressure you into something you're not ready for, just say no.
But if you really like him and you're old enough and mature enough to look after yourself, then say yes and go out and enjoy yourself. I cheated on my boyfriend. I told him the truth, and that I'm sorry and asked him to forgive me. I love him, and I don't want to lose him. I want him to trust me again. He thinks I'm talking with another guy, but I will never cheat on him again because I love him so much. How can I prove to him that he's wrong and that I really love him? If you cheated on your boyfriend and he said he forgives you, it sounds like he must love you.
Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. We need to be able to trust our partner with our money, our secrets, and lots of other things including our love, our hearts. Poor guy, poor you. I think you have to prepare yourself for the inevitable end of this relationship. You love him, but I doubt either of you could be happy together forever with such a big mistake behind you.
That kind of fear in his heart is not likely to go away. I suggest that you seriously consider learning from this experience and moving on. Never make the same mistake in future relationships. Right that you simply will never even consider cheating on him. True love is worth protecting. She should be friends with him while waiting to see what kind of teenager he grows into. Sign in or sign up and post using a HubPages Network account. Comments are not for promoting your articles or other sites. I've been with a guy for nine years now but we haven't gotten married I need help I am 10 years old and there's this guy named Josette and I like him and he kind of likes me so I need your help he rated me a 6 so I need yall's help get him to fully like me.
I'm in love with a boy n his name is NIKHIL n u know what i dont have to do this now because he loves me too n he propose i'm very happy. Hi, I like a guy who is dating some one else.. Whenever we argue he always changes his WhatsApp profile picture and puts a picture of them together. He acts funny when I ask him to introduce me to his single friends. He keeps saying that this is only a friendship but asked me to meet his mum and wanted to take me on a vacation. As the time passed we understood well. I felt he is perfect to me. He is caring loving crazy and spends most of the time with me.
Eventually when I spoke to him about love relation ship and marriage he backed off saying he had already made up his mind not be in love with me. He says he is happy with me and he likes me. I am lost and confused whether to let him go or to keep in touch. I have done all sort of things to make him happy.
I like this nurse male doctor, we both had eye contact for about 30 secs, and I don't know him well and I was realised from the hospital any help how to get over him because I know i won't see him again and idk if he has a girlfriend. Hi my question is how can I change him to nice to me because he is inclement to me and we don't have a closure? He loves me so much and even I do. But ,sometimes, I feel like I don't need him,I don't love hime and I don't wanna be with him anymore. Please tell me what should I do. In fact, I don't wanna lose him.
What should I do to make my mind right all the time. They might just be friends.
Making it hard for him to get a word in could lower your chances of him falling in love with you. This is a frequently asked question posed by many girls who are interested in a guy but want a way to get his attention easily and faster. I am in a relationship with a famous person, and all girls are doing their best to have him. I really like this guy in my grade. He loves me and I also love him, but I don't want to be in a relationship yet. Possibly they only feel love if they see that you are doing something for them in a certain way.
I like him and I think he likes me back but he has a girlfriend what can i do? Now, about the stretch marks But I think you should give him the chance to accept you as you are. Got to give him the chance though. Tell him you trust him to not make you feel worse than you already do. Then see what happens. If you're young, Tori, I think you're best to just keep being special friends as you are now. Wait and see what happens in the future. You don't want to make him feel awkward and under pressure.
Besides, both you and him are going to change as you get older. I think you should wait and see if you still find him interesting and attractive when he's a bit older. Madelin, he's not the guy for you. Leave him behind you and look forward to meeting someone really nice in the future who appreciates you and treats you properly. You might have to wait a while, but it will be worth the wait. The guy who is ignoring you is not the right guy. Don't stress about it, just move on. Why are you supposed to be moving in with your crush, Miss 12?
Are you a foster kid moving in with his family? You know you're going to have to wait for at least four years before making any kind of move on him, don't you? If you do anything stupid like sneaking into his room, you could both end up in a heap of trouble.
He could be charged if he's intimate with you in any way before you're So please, either accept that nothing should be happening with him for a long time yet, or ask to be placed with a different family. Amy, you're wasting your time obsessing about your cousin.
Do some google searches and you'll soon discover there's no romantic future with family members including cousins for good reason. Genetic mutations and birth defects are a common result in children born between family members. In many countries it is illegal for cousins to marry. So I suggest you accept that's one relationship that is a really bad idea. Start meeting guys outside your family circle. That's where you should be looking for romance. You're expecting a bit too much, I think, Rose. You're just starting to get to know each other. How can you expect him to be in love with you so soon?
He probably doesn't even know yet. Give it more time and see how things how work out between you. Suggest he text you or call you sometime, Nelisiwe. If he doesn't make the effort after you've suggested it, you'll know he's not sincere. I like this guy and we hangout a lot. We have common interest, love to talk to each, and we have the same group of friends. But I don't know if he likes me. How do I know if he likes me, as more than a friend? So this boy likes me he's always staring at me but he's going out with someone quit like the year then they break up then I asked him to go out and he said later just because they had just broke up then he goes out with another girl so I'm confused on Like how to deal with this and it feels like he's just playing with my feelings and he starts ignoring me.
I'm supposed to move in with my crush what should I do and he knows I like him, but I don't want people to know and if he doesn't like me or if I tell him I like him and push it to far to soon or if he doesn't like me then it might be really akward. So there is this guy i love and he is my cousin he is usually very silent and doesnt talk too much I met a guy few months ago and he always smile at me whenever we are together if I ask him for anything he gives me he calls all the time but I dont if he loves me or not.
I have a crush on this guy and he tells me that also but I dont get his calls nor texts from him but when he's with me he tells me that im sweet he loves me and im beautiful but no texts or calls from him when we are together you'd bet that we are dating please tell me what to do when he does this. Time to stop forgiving him, Blendina. Find one who is loyal and true to you. But when things have changed and he sleeps aroud n always forgive him but he won't change. Looks to me like the guy values his job.
So maybe just step back a little and see if he tries to approach you again. So you have to respect the guy for his self control and keeping his eye on building his career. Okay I need some guy advice. I started a new job about 6 months and was immediately attracted to a guy that works there. We do not work for the same company, rather my company works for the company that he works for. I admired him from afar for about a month, simply exchanging hello's when we pass each other in the hallway, until I decided to dive in and let him know that I was interested in getting to know him.
We became very flirty and would talk about little things here and there every time we would see each other, which is a lot since it's a small building. It never really went beyond flirting and he said that it's because we work together. He asked me out for drinks about a month ago, which is the first time we talked or hung out outside of work.
We had a lovely time, talked about everything imaginable. We ended the night with a hug and he called to make sure I made it home okay. In the past few weeks, we're not as flirty as we used to be and we still do not talk outside of work. I have texted him a few times and he has replied but it never really turned into a conversation as I felt like I was becoming too pushy. He has said to me that he's "not in any rush" but he seems to be stalling.
During the drinks, he seemed very interested, back at work he has become distant. So that leads me to ask, is it really just work and his feeling that there is no need to rush that things are moving at a snails pace or is he really just not interested and I cannot see it? Make clear from the very beginning that there has to be room in your life for other people. I told him that he is my bestfriend and I will not keep secrets from him and he also told me that I should not keep secretservice from him and told me not to text and talk face to face with other guy. It looks like he is caring about me.
I don't know whether I like this guy or not and one of my friend also have crush on him but he doesn't like this girl and he alsof told me notrim to friend with her. Whenever he sees me he tried to smile at me and of course I also smile back at him and sometimes he really feel so shyam that his face turned very red and he looks really cute.
Everyday I text with him but not everyday whenever I have free time. I like this guy, but idk if he likes me back. We talk almost all the time, but i know he also talks to other girl. I just want to know if he likes me. My advice, Sorde, would be to leave that relationship and find a guy who cares. Not a big dramatic moment. We should do this more often. It makes it easier if you are ready with an idea, instead of the awkwardness of trying to figure out what you could do.
How do I get him to really like me cause we're just friends but I wanna tell him I like him without anything weird happening!! What do I do??? Am so much into him so am just trying my best to get him by my side. I think you should just move on without making a fuss about it, Alisha. It sounds as though your relationship has run its course.
You gave it a good try but there's been no progress so it is time to start being open to the idea of dating someone who is local. Perhaps in five or ten years time the two of you might cross paths and get on brilliantly, but for now it just sounds like you're allowing him to live his life doing whatever he's doing and you're being taken for granted. Being taken for granted is not something you should ever accept, so I believe you should make the decision to move on. You're welcome, Lilly, but I don't know if it is a good thing to have ten guys secretly loving you.
That could make life rather complicated, but I guess you'll end up choosing one and seeing how things work out with him some time in the future. You are so much cool and this had helped me a lot because I have more than ten people who loves me secretly so thank you very much for this and thank you so much for reading this letter because this is all for you guys of who had made this for other people.
So just stay friendly. It might be a year or more before he feels mature enough to give it another try. The girl who is talking to him for me btw she is only mentioning me in conversations to see what he says she is not asking him out for me.. But its so hard to tell because she also said that when this guy talks to girls, but not like that she says that to the girl it feels like he likes her to but hes only being friendly.
If you are working together there should be lots of chances to talk and get to know each other a bit better. I'm not sure what's stopping you from approaching your crush, Jenner. Just start talking with him about something That will make you more approachable. Jerry, I think you might be mixing up the concepts of 'love' and 'like', If you're at school and you talk to him occasionally and he's happy, he probably likes you.
Not the same thing as loving you but I don't think you can be expecting love just yet.. I have a guy friend in school I think he love me because of after month or days I talk him he will be happy that time and day and I think I do love him and he also.
Are you asking me a question? To be honest, you might be on the brink of your first big disappointment. For some crazy reason, I just miss you all the time. Long distance relationships are really hard to maintain. You need to know how he feels one way or the other so you can move forward.
This longtime friend of yours may become a trusted confidant in the future when you both have different partners. Me and this guy have been friends since middle school.. Then I moved to another city and then I realized I really loved him. The only one I ever miss is him. In school we helped each other get over breakups school tests friendship issues everything.
When I told him he said he loved me only as a friend or "sister". This was 2 years ago. We used to fight a lot but now it's sorted because I told him I have a boyfriend. But I actually don't. It's just to make him chase me My plan was to not talk to him for a few months so that he misses me. But I keep finding myself texting back, answering his calls, etc I love only him.
He has a crush in his college that he obsesses over. He doesn't want me as a girlfriend but whenever he is in trouble or depressed he talks only to me He apologized for his behavior but he didn't say he loves me How long should I wait before I tell him the truth? If I tell him I don't have a boyfriend he will think of me as desperate and needy and also that I can't get one cuz I'm not attractive It's just that I'm waiting for him, being loyal..
I deleted your posts and suggest you be more careful in the future. Please be aware of your personal safety. There's this guy I know that has admitted to liking me, but still lives with an on and off girlfriend that he's struggling to leave because supposedly she's as bad as my ex husband was.
I'd like to give him the benefit of the doubt, but I will say that he hasn't tried to do anything with me other than admit his feelings. I refuse to admit my own feelings till I know he's completely done with her. My biggest fear is what to do once he is done, if that happens. I've been in plenty of relationships, but I wouldn't know how to be in one with him because he's the longest, closest, male friendship I've ever had and at the same time, and we're deeply attracted to each other.
You might discover he already feels the same way.